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May 6, 2004, Two Days in Ndawana, by Jessica

 

Pam, Jessica (Pam’s daughter) and Colleen are our newest volunteers. They arrived here on April 30th, and we all went to a community meeting, called by us, on May 2nd. Here are Jessica’s notes in her journal from that day and the one that followed. Jessica just celebrated her 21st birthday.

 


May 2nd, 2004

What a day . . . I’m beginning to see why I’m here. Today was our first trip to Ndawana. The village is like what I had expected. It hurts my heart to see people living in such tiny, cold and sometimes unsafe places. You would never be able to tell if all you saw were their smiles. . .


The people of Ndawana are beautiful. I fell in love the second someone waved back. I fell in love with the little boy that waved, then turned and took a step, then waved over and over again. I fell in love with Busisiwe and her beautiful voice. With that voice she brings wisdom to her village, and she is only 22. She brings life with her singing and laughter with her dance. Would you ever be able to tell that just a few days ago she had a piece of glass removed from her foot that was there for 10 years? Never.

Photo of Phelelani
Phelelani.
I fell in love with Khali yelling to everyone to come to the meeting from the back of the bakkie. His translations to two, three, maybe more very different peoples creating one common understanding.
I fell in love with Phelelani and his blow-up crown. He is a “role model for the world” and a worthy candidate for the “Prince of Canada.” His kind eyes and strong words will take him so far in life.

 

I fell in love with Sibusiso and how he taught me to say “the horse is galloping” even before “hello.” I fell in love with Mrs. Mohlaodi and her obvious strength. Behind her eyes is so much wisdom. A woman named Gloria invited me into her home before she even knew me. How could someone not fall in love here?


I have fallen in love with Ndawana, Edzimkulu and all that these once-foreign words stand for.

 


May 3rd, 2004

Khali’s uncle is dying. One can only assume that here in South Africa he is another victim of AIDS. Lying in a dark square room with no doors, no windows, just an opening, his body shakes. He has been laid down on a single-size mattress and there are lace veils covering his face. He cannot speak, nor move, but his ragged breaths and water-filled lungs say “pneumonia.” He is surrounded by people paying their respects to him. They thank us for visiting. The only “medication” he may receive tonight is a bottle of “Energy-Booster” we sent with some ladies outside the tiny grocery store in Underberg at Khali’s request. In South Africa he is left to suffer through his pain. His name is Mike. He is 35 years old.


This experience put a face on AIDS for me. This is what health care in third world countries is like. It is non-existent. It is my third full day here and I have been shocked to tears already.

 

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