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September 25th, 2005, A Typical Day, by Chris

 

On Friday our newest volunteer, Gabrielle Campbell, arrived fresh off the plane from Edmonton. Today I caught myself telling her that today wasn’t a typical day and that things would calm down. Tonight I wonder just what a typical day is in the world I currently inhabit. On Friday Bobinise, the 2 ½ month old baby of our team member Sipho, died after being rushed by ambulance from Ndawana, 80 km. to Centocow, and then transported by helicopter 100 km. to Pietermaritzburg. He seemed healthy on Wednesday. Two years ago they lost their first child. Today I spent the day negotiating with two different hospitals on how to “repatriate the body” so that we wouldn’t have to travel 180 km to fetch the child for burial. There is no way around it. Tomorrow Marg and Larry will go with the father to get the remains of their second child.


Tonight I wonder if the helicopters still fly over the Rockies searching for our brother-in-law Darryl. I know that the search is over. But when really is it ever over. We wait for news. We want to be there. But it is so far and there is so much to do here.


And today fifteen people from Social Welfare traveled 115 km. over unimaginable roads to process child support grants in Ndawana. Their first words were that they loved the chocolate cake we took them when they helped a stroke victim with six children. Now they come to the people of the village and help a hundred at a time instead of us painfully transporting 10 people for a long day in Mzimkhulu. And today the electrician from Underberg came to the village and will install wiring next week for the solar power coming from Germany – a donation from a company we don’t even know.


The women worked in the garden, at least 20 children checked out books from the library, we ran out of cement, but managed to get the tarred twine so we can finish the roof on the last building. James Bond fell off his horse on the weekend and had to go home early from work today. And Kathleen arrived home safely just now from another day of transporting AIDS patients. 13 hours on the road. In the end I can’t tell you what a typical day is like. I have no answers as to why some people live and others die. I only know that I no longer ponder the question. I can only give thanks for the small gifts of each day. In words my son Scott read to me just yesterday, I wish you enough. Enough happiness, sadness, strength, and love. And we have enough.

 

P.S.: This was written about six days ago, and we are just now getting time to send it out after another string of typical days.

 

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